Jul 17, The Most Useful Everyday Phrases in English

Traditional English language textbooks and courses will do a great job of introducing you to vocabulary and grammar, but they don't always teach you the important everyday phrases in English. When students visit an English-speaking country, they can sometimes be confused by some of these phrases.

Sometimes the problems are because pronunciation is different in spoken English, and sometimes the problems are because English speakers use idioms that cannot be translated literally into another language.

When you are learning everyday phrases, it is important to learn if they are formal, informal or slang. Here are some examples:

"How are you?" is a little formal.

People will often say the more informal:
"How're you doing?"
"How's it going?"
or "How's everything?"

They all mean pretty much the same thing really; the speaker wants to know if you're OK.

You might also hear "What's happening?" or "What's up?"

These questions are asking you about your activities now – "What are you doing?"

"Thank you."

Of course that's fine, but people will usually say "Thanks." You may also hear "Cheers," or "Ta" (especially in British English).

"Gonna," "wanna," "coulda," "shoulda," "woulda," etc.

Sometimes you will come across these in spoken English.

They are shortened forms of "going to," "want to," "could have," "should have" and "would have."

They can cause a lot of confusion among learners so listen out for them. Again, they are very informal.

"Have a nice day!"

I love this phrase. It's a kind of nice, happy way of saying goodbye to someone and is often used if you don't know someone very well.

You will also hear the more informal expressions, "see ya!" (see you), "take care," "later," and "bye bye" as often as "Goodbye."

"Cool" is probably the most used word in the English language.

If you can start using this naturally in your English speech you know you are making progress towards sounding like a native English speaker!

Obviously these are all pretty general phrases and words but there are many more that are used in particular situations.
The most important thing is to listen. Listen to conversations between other people, listen to dialogue in movies, listen to radio talk shows. etc.
Put yourself a target for each movie/radio talk show you watch or listen to.

For example:
Put a target of learning one or two new useful phrases on the next English speaking movie you watch.  Then, during the movie, remind yourself to put attention on the speech of the characters.  Spot a phrase that is commonly used in the movie, and is also new to you. Write it down.  Clarify fully what it means. Use it a few times in sentences of your own. And try to include it in your following English writing/speaking. Learn some new phrases on the next movie!
This can be a great way to learn new phrases because you catch them in  "real" life situations. You get to see and note down how it is used. This can be very helpful.

If you hear a phrase and you aren't sure if it is formal, informal, or slang, the best thing to do is either to ask someone you trust, or check in a good dictionary. Many good dictionaries will tell you how formal a word or expression is.

If the word is a swear word, the dictionary should tell you. It may have the abbreviation vulg (for "vulgar") next to the definition. You certainly don't want to start using swear words in a formal situation, so it's good to be careful!

There are so many useful everyday phrases in English that no single article will be able to help you with all of them, so just listen and practice when you can.